Seven practices
For several years, I've enjoyed videos from a Japanese teacher Samurai Matcha (Aki-san). This week's offering on 7 Japanese habits fits beautifully with my Reiki practice and good sense, and I grew up with many of them, in my rural Oregon home.
Hara Hachibi bun me
- Respect and honor our ancestors - this is one of the Reiki principles, honor your parents and elders; Aki-san speaks of receiving the 'baton of Life' from our ancestors, to help us in our own lives! I grew up taking flowers to my grandparents' graves on Memorial Day, and hearing stories of their lives.
- Clean up public areas - pick up trash, leave things 'cleaner than you found them! In Oregon, private citizens 'adopt' sections of the highways and beaches, and do regular clean ups. Our Edible Landscaping group adopted the 6 block stretch along Alpine street where our raised gardens are located. My folks loved to camp, and again, cleaned up around the site before and after. Cities find that cleaning up graffiti brings positive effects. If business is down, ... try cleaning up around your home or office!
- Hara Hachibi bun me - stop eating when you're 80% full! This practice stimulates a 'longevity' gene, and is a common practice among centenarians in Okinawa, one of the 'Blue Zones.' When my mom began putting on 'mid-life' weight, her doc suggested 'push yourself back from the table' as the best exercise, and recommended she 'budget' for holidays and outings, eating a bit less the day before and after! Choosing smaller, attractive plates is one way to keep portion sizes smaller; and take 1/2 home when you're eating out!
- Gochiso-sama - give thaks for each meal! Blessing our food and drink is important in many spiritual and healing traditions for good reason! Taking a moment to express gratitude helps prepare our bodies to receive optimal nutrition from what we are ingesting.
- Power of spoken words - Koku Damo - positive (or negative) words affect us and those around us. Kind words can even influence plant growth - One of the Reiki Principles, Hito ni shin stisu ne, encourages us to 'be kind to self and everone.'
- Timeliness - in Japan, trains run on time, and folks applogize when they are even a minute late! Timeliness was one of the 5 pillars of respect in our pioneer one room schools. Once at a workshop, a speaker who'd lived among the Lakota Souix bespoke the difference between 'clock time and people time' - if you're rushing to a meeting, and see Aunt Annie has a flat tire - you stop and help her!! Everyone in tribal cultures understands that taking care of each other includes this taking time to help another!
- Tidying up. Many became aware of this practice with KanMari's teachings about tidyness! I grew up with a mom who folded towels neatly, kept things tidy, and tried to find places for each object. Offering massage at the Retreat center, we had a linen service for our sheets, and one of my coworkers encouraged us to fold and stack them uniformily in each room, commenting that guests would feel they would get a good treatment, just walking in! He also found the best way to place the sheets on the massage table, so we could unfold them without extra turns!
Clean up along Alpine
Which of these do you practice regularly?
Are there any you'd like to adopt?
This is the day I do a general tidy of my space, my Weekly Blessing Hour - time to hop to it!
Thank you for this post. These are wonderful daily practices. I am grateful to have found your blog and look forward to following you on the UBC journey.
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome!
DeleteI always enjoy simple lists like this one as well. Looking forward to the journey as well.
Great post. I grew up with a lot of these principals, which I have passed along to my children.
ReplyDeleteThanks! Great that you've passed down similar guidelines!
DeleteWhat wonderful rules to live by, thanks for sharing them! I definitely live by the power of the spoken word one, I have done so ever since watching What The Bleep Do We Know and hearing about the water experiments - I can't remember the scientist's name but he talked to water in kind and mean ways and observed differences in the molecules.
ReplyDeleteThe one I most need to adopt is the eating until 80% full one but I'm not optimistic about my success ;-)
Wasn't What the Bleep inspiring? And yes - I loved finding out about Emoto's experiments with water!
DeleteI was always impressed with the advice from my mom's doctor! He told her so often folks feel that eating more on holidays or outings was 'breaking' their diet, and an excuse to eat more for several days! Having smaller portions in the first place helps me - it's still tricky!!
This is beautiful, Nadya! I do a lot of work on my home, clearing out negative energy and unwelcome spiritual guests. I also know the power of words and am committed to getting better at thinking before I speak. What I would like to work on also is the 80% fullness thing. I used to do that - eating to 7 or 8 on the scale, but now I sometimes eat more. Partly because I don't feel well and food is comforting. But I want to get better with that. Thanks for the encouragement!
ReplyDeleteYou offer a wonderful example for creating a cozy, welcoming home, Janine! I'm working on that one! I'm finding it easier in my smaller space.
DeleteI think many of us work on finding balance with food and comfort! I aim for healthier choices most of the time, and always offering gratuitous!